Saturday, October 25, 2008

Learning

I'm learning a lot lately. I'm trying to learn how to balance my personal life with my home life. Sometimes I feel bad about going out with my friends instead of being home while he is. I don't understand that sometimes when, by the time he gets up and goes to work, I will have only had 2 hours with him. I've also been trying to learn/understand why when I mention wanting to go out with some girls to go have a drink, Aaron gets upset. I think he thinks i'm going to want to go out ALL the time. I just think he doesn't want me to be like that. I'm just so frustrated because I don''t see how b/c it didn't work well for him [going out] that I'm automatically not allowed to. urgh. Am i wrong in being kind of upset about this? I feel like i'm being told I can't have a life because he doesn't right now. I hope that I get this figured out sooner or later.
I'm also learning to be patient and know that I need to go get a job. I need to get credits done. I also need to be patient about graduating. I know it's soo close. I don't want to drop the ball now. I just want to make my family proud about me finishing my education. Aaron told me he got scheduled for the night of my graduation. I really hope that he will be able to come. I would be actually kind of sad. Well i should really go. I'm watching a movie and i think my typing is getting annoying. lol.

Love.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Dreams

Now that I'm nearing the end of my education I'm starting to begin the process of finding employment. I really worry that I won't find the job of my dreams. I know you have to work your way up to what you want to achieve, but really? I hope that my significant other will support me in my dreams. I'm looking into London. Wouldn't that be sweet?! i doubt it will happen, but how do I know if I don't try right?
School is going really well. I'm done November 12. SWEET!!! I cannot wait. I really am excited to finally be done and just work. I know its been really hard on Aaron moving and adjusting to lincoln. He's done it well. I 'm just worried because I want him to be happy. At the same time I want to be happy. I guess, I just really need to find a good balance.
Wedding planning is underway. Once this school stuff is over I can go into full wedding mode. I really can't wait. I just want to be married!!!! Hehe. Anyway. I know it will go according to plan but i worry about things. I need to figure out counciling and that hasn't exactly started like it should have a while ago. So I really don't know whats going on with that. I hope I can get time to call Matt to figure it all out. I should probably get back to work.

I hope this finds everyone well.

love.